Truth Bomb: You Are A Queen

Whether you find yourself balking at this assertion or feeling the "shiver of truth" moving across your skin, there is no denying that every single one of us is The Queen of our Life, or should be.

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Being the Queen doesn't mean we get to boss everyone around or have riches dropped at our feet. It means that we recognize ourselves as the Sovereign Ruler of our inner and outer landscape--what we see within and without and how we experience life.

The Queen represents power and authority in all women. Symbolically, her court can be anything from a corporation, to her home, to her body.

The archetypal energy of Queen must be activated through our own maturity and growth and that guides us to claiming our full expression and sovereignty.

If you have been around the block a time or two in your development as a woman, you may have heard of the three stages of a woman's life: Maiden, Mother, and Crone. These come from an ancient understanding of the Goddess and in part are also related to the phases of the moon (an ancient symbol of the Goddess). But this understanding is incomplete. The moon has FOUR phases not three: waxing, waning, full, and new (or DARK). This fourth phase, which is hidden, has been missing from the sacred teachings about the phases of a woman's life.

Between Mother and Crone is the missing chapter of QUEEN. And you simply cannot get to full Crone without first embracing and embodying your self-sovereignty.

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The subtle patriarchal message of the missing Queen is, "Raise the kids (Mother) or settle into your rocker (Crone) and leave the world to us men." Well, we can all see how that is turning out.  Don't get me wrong, I love men. But the voices and hearts of women are desperately needed in leadership arenas everywhere we look. It's time for us to prepare ourselves to take a more active role, but we must learn to lead ourselves first. I believe it is absolutely ESSENTIAL that women wake up to and embrace their sovereignty so that we can make the difference we are called to make.

The world will be saved by the Western woman.
~HH The Dalai Lama

Perhaps like me, you know that feeling of being adrift between Mother and Crone. As I entered into my 50th year of life, my role as mother was changing (my teen daughter no longer needs me in the same way), and I was clearly not ready for Crone! Nope. Not. At. All. But as hard as I tried to find my footing, it eluded me. The moments of passion and pleasure in my marriage were far too few. My work life was fraught with stress and frustration. And my body was...well, not the same.

It wasn't until I focused on self-sovereignty using the missing archetype of The Queen that it all began to make sense to me.

"The Queen, though not yet old, is quite aware that the passing of time is no longer in Her favor.
She is not concerned with the business of winding down Her life,
but rather with living it to the max before it is too late.

The Queen refuses to go softly into the dark of night.

She bursts into glorious flame like a dramatic sunset in the western sky...
She is ignited with a fiery patina, glowing from within.
She is the fire we have been missing."

- Donna Henes

Center Stage can be a scary place, but there was no denying that's where I knew I was supposed to be. It was time to choose me.

I invested significant time and money to study with masters of energy and Tantric practices, and began the deep healing work of coming home to my body, mind, heart, and soul. I discovered the Shakti Life Force Energy that is my birthright.  I learned how to let it flow in and through me and miraculous things began to happen.


But it wasn't all a bed of roses. As I claimed my right to focus on my self-sovereignty, I had to navigate through tremendous internal resistance. The critical voices inside my head tried to sabotage my efforts out of fear of being seen as selfish or weird. They used guilt and shame. They insisted I should stay small and play it safe. But my Soul had other plans for me.

Since stepping fully into my sovereignty I have experienced a kind of life I didn't know was even possible. I feel alive and in love with myself and my life like never before. My relationship with my husband is both full of fiery passion and tender love. My daughter and I are closer than ever as I now know how to give her the space she needs to become a woman. Even my work with women has become more potent and my business has become more fruitful.

Everything is different now because I remember who I am:

What Makes A Queen a Queen?

The gift of The Queen archetype is experienced in varied ways but it is always dependent on the ability to receive.

The Queen knows two things, and they are inextricably linked.
She knows her POWER – her  authority and right to power
She knows how to RECEIVE – which is where she gets her power.

This is a problem for most women because we really suck at receiving. Why? Because we've been told we need to give, give, give! And, in truth, during The Mother phase of life, giving is an essential part of carrying out that role.

But once we arrive at midlife, the time has come for us to take center stage in our own lives.

Perhaps you are finding yourself filled with fire (and a few hot flashes too!) for the passions you put on the back burner as a Mother and are ready to bring them forth now that your kids are getting older.
Are you ready to receive your due?

Or maybe you are still feeling exhausted, drained, and disconnected from your dreams, unable to find your joy.
Just maybe you are yearning for a new focus and time to reclaim your space and yourself.
Are you ready to reclaim your power?

If you are ready to bring forth the fire and spirit of The Queen in your life, I invite you to join me for A Royal Adventure!


My mission is to support women in activating and awakening their dormant Self-Sovereignty Superpowers so that they live a more vibrant, passionate, and inspiring life.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it,
is to devote 7 Sunday mornings to focus on yourself
to awaken, activate, and practice your Self-Sovereignty Superpowers so that you can
1) Experience more joy, delight, and pleasure in life
2) Have greater harmony in all of your relationships
3) Embody and live from your Divine Purpose
making your life happier and our world more loving.

I invite you to join your sisters as we gather in circle to learn and practice The Sacred Sovereign Arts.

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How the program works

The pace is gentle, the experience is potent.
The circle begins December 2017 and runs through May 2018. Each month we will gather together for learning and practice - because practice makes permanent! There are three ways for you to participate:

In Person (FULL)

Live in or near Kansas City? Lucky you! There will be room for up to 12 women local to the Kansas City area to join me in person for our gatherings at Centred Spirit in Waldo.  IN-PERSON CLASS IS NOW FULL!


Not local? No Problem! You can join us live for our monthly meeting by logging into our secret Facebook group where you can watch the live stream video of the gathering as it is happening. Or I may offer a separate online course via ZOOM.

Watch Later

Not available at the times when we are gathering? No problem! All the live events will be recorded and the recordings will be instantly posted in the Facebook group and will be available for viewing by group members at your leisure.

Dates, Times, Teachings & Practices

Join me for these in-person and live-stream sessions or watch later when it works for you.



Sunday, December 10, 2017
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The First Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Know the truth of your enoughness
* Activate the secret to receiving support
* Energize and anchor your body
* Unhook you from scourge of over-responsibility



Sunday, January 21, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Second Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Understand the miracle of your female body
* Open to receiving physical/sexual pleasure
* Claim your energetic space
* Discover the healing role of orgasm



Sunday, February 18, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Third Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Embody the power at the core of your being
* Open to receiving your natural power
* Inhabit your inner strength
* Experience the power of boundaries



Sunday, March 18, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Fourth Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Tap the well-spring of love within you
* Open to deeply receiving love
* Access the love and support of The Ancestors
* Let go of the limits of your conditioning



Sunday, April 15, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Fifth Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Focus on your presence as a gift
* Open to receiving respect
* Clear out and fully inhabit your energy body
* Break free from the lie of patriarchy



Sunday, May 6, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Sixth Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Access your unlimited inner wisdom
* Enhance your ability to receive money
* Set a strong and supportive field for yourSelf
* Experience the value of BEING



Sunday, May 20, 2018
9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
The Seventh Set of Sovereign Arts will help you:
* Integrate your sacred and sovereign self
* Create a strong connection to your Soul
* Call in your unique energetic frequency
* Experience the delight of Alignment

Are you feeling the call of the Sovereign?
Are you ready to embrace your Queen?

Special Preview Opportunity

Because this launch is a preview version of the course, I am offering a very special preview tuition. 

The regular tuition for this 7 month course will be $977 or 7 monthly payments of $167.

I am delighted to announce that you can join in for a very special preview tuition of only $577 or $87/month!

I have invested more than $20,000 studying with master teachers to learn these practices and I can tell you this life changing work is absolutely priceless!

The Circle Is Open

Will you accept your mission to devote 7 Sunday mornings to focus on yourself to awaken, activate, and practice your Self-Sovereignty Superpowers? Are you ready to make your life happier and our world more loving by:
1) Experiencing more joy, delight, and pleasure in life
2) Having greater harmony in all of your relationships
3) Embodying and living from your Divine Purpose

If you are feeling a YES! in your soul, I invite you to step into the circle with your sisters and join us on the road to embrace and embody our self sovereignty. Choose the right payment option for you below:

One Payment

Monthly Payment


But you can still register for the distance/online experience. We will be using Facebook Live wth the fall back option of a separate distance class using ZOOM video conferencing. Either way, it's going to be a ROYAL adventure!

Who Should Participate

This 7 month program is available to all women, although ideally suited for those of us who are 40+ and comfortable using Facebook groups as a way to connect.

While we will be talking some about the transition from Mother to Queen, it matters not whether you have birthed children. We all mother in our own way, whether that's nurturing friends, family, our work or creative projects. And most of us give away much more than we get, and it's time for balance.

Here are some thoughts from a few women who have worked with me before:


These teachings are the key I didn't even know I was looking for. They have changed EVERYTHING, and I am not one to make sweeping claims. These energy/body practices and new understanding of the specific way energy moves through my body as a woman have changed how I show up in the world, how I interact with others, and how I manifest. I have worked with and taught divine feminine principles, relationship between the masculine and feminine, and conscious equal partnership for many years. This work has given me an entirely new understanding that, not only has changed how I do life, but will be woven into the next octave of my sacred work in the world.

I wouldn't just 'recommend' this work. I would say it is nothing short of a necessary soul requirement for women to reclaim their natural state of divine grace and magic. These lost arts have opened up an entirely new understanding and my body is crying, "Thank you. Thank you. This is how it is supposed to be. This is my natural state."
Stephanie Red Feather,
Shamanic Coach & Priestess Process Facilitator 

The shift that Rima has made is the most beautiful transformation I have ever seen in a woman.  She is a radiant, loving, inviting, supportive feminine energy and I feel deeply nourished whenever I am around her. She sees something deeper in me. It’s like she sees me at the soul level and she brings that out in me.

If you’re tired of the old ways of constantly doing, striving, and pushing yourself to achieve, Rima can help you shift into creating from your true feminine power.
Laura Wolf,
Shamanic Breathwork Facilitator &
Transformational Coach

Rima's teachings invite and empower me to make conscious choices to live fully, regardless of the circumstances. She is an amazing teacher and coach.
She integrates deep empathy and acceptance with insight, skills and a wide breadth of knowledge to nurture your growth. If you're ready to transform your life, invest in this opportunity. Go for it!
Susie Weller,
Author of Why Don’t You Understand?

Being driven to succeed, working hard, be assertive, proving myself… All these things led to burnout, exhaustion and frustration in my work and in my body. I had to learn a different way. Entering this feminine Temple with Rima, I learned a new way. I now practice the feminine energy of receiving, allowing, and holding space. This is much more in alignment with who I am in my essence and it feels fantastic!With Rima's guidance and gentle coaching, I have new tools that have helped me return to joy in my work and navigate through my life in an empowering, yet feminine, way. Rima is the real deal for transformation and returning to your true self. Working with her is a game-changer!
Joy Cherry, Executive

The work I did with Rima was some of the most powerful I’ve ever done. She is so versatile and connected that you always feel safe. Rima is immensely gifted and bringing just what you need. She’s powerful, smart, funny, and encouraging. You’ll love her!
Rev. Elizabeth Mora
Senior Minister
Unity of Montclair


Need another Reason to say yes? How about this?

Sign up and receive a monthly bonus of an hour-long interview with one of my  master teachers or esteemed colleagues.

That's 7 additional hours of amazing teachings valued at more than $1200 yours for FREE!

The Circle is Waiting...

This is a circle for women feeling an enthusiastic YES! Got a yes? Awesome! You are invited you to step into this powerful experience of unleashing your sovereign self in sisterhood. Let's get started! Choose the right payment option for you below:

One Payment

Monthly Payment


But you can still register for the distance/online experience. We will be using Facebook Live wth the fall back option of a separate distance class using ZOOM video conferencing. Either way, it's going to be a ROYAL adventure!


Hope to hear from you soon!